Excerpt of Man Card and Q&A with Sarina Bowen and Tanya Eby


Ekk! I had the pleasure to ask Sarina Bowen and Tanya Eby some questions to celebrate the release of their newest novel, Man Card. I hope you enjoy reading these as much as I did! Also, make sure to scroll down to read an excerpt of Man Card!


Q: What is your favorite thing about writing with Sarina/Tanya? 

Tanya: I love that Sarina is so blasted smart that she forces me to think deeper. It makes for better characters and a more interesting story line. I kind of feel like my writing style is like a balloon drifting. She grabs hold of me and keeps me from floating away. She’s also got a great sense of humor and puts up with me, so that’s nice. 

Sarina: Tanya’s job is to run off with the balloon, and take me outside of my own head. She has such a wild sense of humor and it’s so refreshing! My job is to tame it and shape it into a romance plot line.

Q: How did you split up the writing process?

Sarina: We trade back and forth every 2,000 words or so. That way we both get to write both characters.

Q: Braht is quite a character. I don’t think I’ve experienced another hero quite like him. If you had to cast someone to bring him to life in a movie, who would you pick?

Tanya: I just watched Call Me By Your Name and Armie Hammer would make a terrific Braht! 

Q: I laughed out loud a handful of times while reading this book. Did any of the hilarious moments (crunchy kielbasa for example) come from real life experiences or just a great imagination? 

Tanya: That kielbasa scene is real! Only, you know, enhanced for reader enjoyment. The kielbasa my mother-in-law served us was really tasty. And there’s a salon scene where the pedicurist is quite terrifying. That was inspired by real life events. I’m lucky I survived it with all ten toes.

Q: If you had to pick between Tom or Braht to play your fake boyfriend, which one would you pick?

Tanya: I’d pick Tom. I’m really uncoordinated and I feel like he would be good to hold onto while walking across ice. It’s icy in Michigan.

Sarina: Okay, twist my arm. I’ll take Braht. We can get pedicures together.

Q: If you had to give each other a nickname, via Braht style, what would it be?

Tanya: I’m terrible at nicknames. Everyone in my family has a nickname and I’ve always just been Tanya. Huh. How about Pooh Bear for Sarina? Or Sassy Pants? Maybe just Miss Sarina. 

Sarina: I’m not sure we all need Braht-style nicknames. But I will say that Tanya posts the best cocktail photos on Instagram. So I’m dubbing her Ms. Margarita.

Q: In Man Card we learn that Ash’s family has a cabin that is very near and dear to her heart. If you could pick any location for a vacation home for you and your family/friends, where would it be?

Tanya: A cottage on the lake is my absolute dream. There are a lot of people in Michigan who are lucky enough to have one. I’m still not that lucky, but a girl can dream. 

Sarina: We’re skiers so I want a ridiculously posh home in Aspen. As long as I don’t have to pay for it. This is a fantasy, right?

Q: Can you spill any news on if Sadie will get a book!? (fingers crossed)

We sure hope so! We’re working on something soon!




Nothing ventured, nothing banged…

I still don’t know how it happened. One minute I was arguing with my arrogant competitor–our usual trash-talk over who deserves the larger commission. But somehow I went from throwing down to kneeling down…
It can never happen again. I don’t even like Braht. He’s too slick. He’s a manipulating mansplaining party boy in preppy clothes.
So why can’t I get him out of my head?

There are two things I know without question. One: Ash and I are destined for each other. Two: never trust a man with a unibrow.
Ash is my missing my piece. She’s the sweet cream to my gourmet espresso. And nothing gets me going faster than her contempt for me. They don’t call her the Ashkicker for nothing.
Eventually I’ll win her over…if my past doesn’t ruin everything first.




Name your other favorite movies,” I challenge Braht.

All of them?” He chugs his margarita.

Hmm. Top ten? Top five?”

That’s totally easy,” he says. Somehow I’ve gotten closer to him on the floor. When he sits back, I actually snuggle in beside him. He’s wearing a ridiculously soft shirt that feels good against my skin. And I watch with fascination as he ticks off the names of films on his fingers. When Harry Met Sally. The Devil Wears Prada. Roman Holiday. Clueless. And Working Girl.”

I burst out laughing. I can’t help it. Those are all chick flicks. You should just hand over your man card right now.”

Not a chance.” Braht’s expression grows intense. In the first place, I gave you a very thorough demonstration of my man card last week. I don’t remember hearing any complaints.”

I swallow hard, because this is certainly true.

And secondly, you’re looking at this all backward.”

I…am?” And why can’t I look away? He has the most beautiful, intelligent eyes.

Yeah, you are,” he whispers. It’s the guy who has a firm grip on his man card that can hold your purse. He’s not afraid to be seen with that Tory Burch you like to carry—nice color, by the way. He’ll free up your hands because he likes your hands, and he remembers all the terrific things you can use them for.”

Oh,” I say slowly. Now my fingers itch to reach out for him. I have to make fists with both hands so I won’t do it.

Furthermore, he’s not afraid to quote Working Girl. Because Joan Cusack is a genius. And who wouldn’t want to say Melanie Griffith’s best line out loud?”

I can’t help saying it with him, and together we sound like the world’s horniest Greek chorus: I have a head for business and a body for sin.”

Sin sounds pretty good right now, actually. But Braht’s not done with his speech. Any man who tells you that chick flicks are for pussies can’t be any good in bed. Because that man does not speak the language of women. He doesn’t know that a little luxury can erase a shitty day of worrying about your ex…”

Braht takes my hand in his and begins to massage it. He has a great technique, applying gentle pressure between each joint. I relax just a little bit more against him.

“…That man doesn’t speak the language because he’s afraid of sounding like a girl. But fuck that noise, honey bear. If a man doesn’t have the vocabulary to describe a satin teddy with peekaboo lace and mother-of-pearl snaps at the crotch, he can’t buy it for you and then strategically ask you to wear it. He can’t plan ahead to blow your mind sometime by lifting your skirt somewhere semi-public and dangerous. And he can’t get down on his knees and kiss that lace and then pop open those snaps while you bite your own hand to keep from screaming when you climax.” Braht takes a deep breath and lets it out in one hot gust. Fuck. What was the point of this speech?”

“Um…” My voice is hoarse, and my face is suddenly very hot. Let’s not even mention my nipples. Man cards, I think.” But I’m not sure, because everything tingles.

Right,” he says with a sigh. Still got mine. Shall we watch Working Girl next?”

Okay,” I breathe, sinking a little further into his comforting embrace.



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Q&A with Sarina Bowen!


I had the opportunity to ask Sarina Bowen a few questions, and yes, I’m *still* fangirling over it. Guys, I hope you enjoy this as much as I do! And don’t forget to scroll down for another look at Bittersweet, out June 14th. You don’t want to miss out on the chance to swoon over Griff, trust me!


Q: I have to start off with one of my favorite aspects of Bittersweet– the delicious, mouthwatering food that Audrey prepares. Did you use any recipes to inspire those dishes? If so, do you have any plans to share them?

SB: I hope to share some of Audrey’s hits! I’ll do the cherry bbq sauce as soon as my own cherry tree is bearing. 🙂

Q:  It’s safe to say that Audrey knows her way around the kitchen. Do you personally enjoy cooking?

SB: Yes! And here’s a secret–before I wrote romance, I was a food writer. Shh!

Q: There is great detail about farming, crops, cider making, and the business side of things-how did you go about researching everything?

SB:There are lots of wonderful cidermakers where I live, so I tasted my way through the research.

Q: Do you have any experience with farming?

SB: We have 52 fruit trees and some chickens. I live down the road from sheep, cows, goats and horses. You can’t turn around without bumping into a farm, here.

Q: What is your favorite thing about living in Vermont?

SB: Skiing! And beards. And fresh air.

Q: I have to say, I just adored Griff’s family. Aside from Griff and Audrey, who was your favorite character to write?

SB: I have a soft spot in my heart for Zach.

Q: With all the hard cider talk in the book, it made me wonder: What type of beverage would represent Griff’s, Jude’s and Zach’s personalities?

SB: Griff is a cider man. Jude drinks gingerale these days but in STEADFAST he buys Zach a case of snooty Vermont beer. You’ll see!

Q: I’m still swooning over Griff and Audrey- will they make an appearance in Steadfast?

SB: Absofreakinglutely!

Thanks again Sarina for your time! 🙂



The last person Griffin Shipley expects to find stuck in a ditch on his Vermont country road is his ex-hookup. Five years ago they’d shared a couple of steamy nights together. But that was a lifetime ago.

At twenty-seven, Griff is now the accidental patriarch of his family farm. Even his enormous shoulders feel the strain of supporting his mother, three siblings and a dotty grandfather. He doesn’t have time for the sorority girl who’s shown up expecting to buy his harvest at half price.

Vermont was never in Audrey Kidder’s travel plans. Neither was Griff Shipley. But she needs a second chance with the restaurant conglomerate employing her. Okay—a fifth chance. And no self-righteous lumbersexual farmer will stand in her way.

They’re adversaries. They want entirely different things from life. Too bad their sexual chemistry is as hot as Audrey’s top secret enchilada sauce, and then some.


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Author Spotlight- Shirl Rickman


Shirl Rickman is kind of new to the writing scene, but she is someone you have to keep your eyes on. Her debut novel, When Destinies Collide, was one of my favorite reads in 2015. Her writing is engaging, creative and amusing. She has this way of bringing the words to life right off the page. Seriously, I was tempted to start using a southern accent when I finished When Destinies Collide.

If you haven’t read that book yet, you need to check it out. It is a romantic, hilarious, bittersweet journey filled with twist and turns. I could go on and on about it, but I already covered that in my review, so be sure to check that out. I’m SO excited for her second novel, Somewhere In Between, will be out this April!

Purchase When Destinies Collide at Amazon. It is also free for kindle unlimited. You can find out more about it on Goodreads. For more on the lovely Shirl Rickman, and all her upcoming projects, check out her Facebook.

Shirl was so kind and agreed to do a Q&A with me. Enjoy! 🙂

Tell us how a typical day of writing goes for you.

SR: I’m a morning person. Seriously, I’m narcoleptic after about 8:30 PM and basically, non-functioning after 4 PM. I wake up around 4:30 or 5:00 in the morning, go over my chapter outlines so I can get a little prep in about where my mind needs to go once I start writing while I have a cup or three of coffee. I do my mommy duties and get the kid to school by 7:45 or 8. I head to Starcrack. I have a favorite table, and I know the precise time I need to arrive so I get it. lol. It’s sad, but they know me by name, and they know what I like to drink. By the time, I set up my computer, the barista brings me a mug filled with a non-fat latte. No sugar, I’m sweet enough. Haha. It’s the best Starbucks ever. (I’m sure my pal and fellow writer, Sara Ney would argue this point.)I put on my headphones, music blaring, get on FB, open up my word doc, write one word, get on Instagram, then before I know it, it’s 2:30 and time to pick up my daughter. haha. I would like to say I’m kidding, but I’m not.

When I’m writing, I put on the headphones, and it flows. I pause here and there and go over my notes. I love when I’m in the zone. 

Do you outline/plan before you start writing or do you go with the flow?

SR: My process has changed over time. I don’t outline in the way most of us learned to draft essays in school. When a story idea comes to mind, I know the beginning, a few middle details, and the end. I usually write this down. When it comes to the characters, I’ve always written down details about each one because they’re always pretty vivid in my mind. I changed this habit this past September after Boise Book Fest; I listened to Amy Harmon speak about interviewing her characters. I nodded the entire time she was speaking and realized, I was doing this in a way but needed more detail. The little details the reader may not ever know about are essential to bringing the characters alive, such as what type of toothpaste the character prefers.  One of the best thing about Amy’s writing is the strong characters she writes. With Somewhere in Between, I interviewed both Tessa and Lenox. I asked them tons of questions. I feel like knowing them more personally helps the story. 

As for a full outline and plan for each story, I usually call or message a couple of my friends. I plot out the book, tell them what I’m thinking and get a little feedback. I write down each chapter number and the three major points within that one chapter then it’s me just going with the flow. Outlines feel too permanent and often I have no idea where the characters will take me in the story. For me, doing it this way allows me the freedom to change my mind and direction.I have these idea sessions every couple of weeks. It probably drives them mad!

When Destinies Collide is SO good, and filled with so many twists and turns- where did you get the idea for it?

SR: Honestly, I have no idea! Lol. Kidding…sort of. 

WDC is a prime example of the characters and story direction changing as I write. I can remember the initial idea came to me when I was driving and had this new CD blasting. The artist was Emeli Sande and for some reason two of her songs kind of sparked this idea. It usually takes one word or one thing to kick start a story in my mind. 

I love twist. I like to be caught off guard in a story, and honestly, it very rarely happens. I always seem to guess the twist in the story. It’s annoying. haha. With WDC, I’m always curious about what readers thought and if they saw how the story would unfold before it happened. I’ve only had one person tell me that they had it somewhat figured out, but not really. haha. As for where it came from, sometimes the story and characters just take over. Everything that happened to and between Drake and Selene was supposed to be a part of their story. I’m sure that doesn’t make sense to anyone but me.

Are any of the people /places in WDC based off of real people/places?

SR: Montgomery, the town where Selene and Drake live is based on the town I grew up in; every description is of a place I went as a kid. Last May there was major flooding in Texas especially around the town I grew up. My husband, daughter and I had spent the weekend before there on the river with my best girlfriend since childhood and her family. We sat on the shore under the tall cypress trees, played with our kids in the water. It felt so good because I could see Selene and her mom sitting there together. I could see Drake and Lacey. It was such a surreal moment. I’d been done writing WDC for several months at that point, but I felt so good knowing I gave such a beautiful place the acknowledgment it deserved in my book. The hard part is the very next weekend all of those trees which had been there for hundreds of years were gone, washed away by the waters. It was so hard to see. I can remember crying, but being so thankful for that last memory. 

As for the characters, they aren’t based on any one person I know. Although, I knew a Drake Thomas. I knew Selene. I knew Tommy and Emme. I think we take pieces of people we know or meet all the time as writers. Elizabeth and Aunt Vi’s wisdom and words are definitely my own Mama. She always knew just what to say and how. She also had the best sayings that most people don’t get, either at all or unless they’re from the South. Also, my mama rarely said bad words, but she said shit all the time. lol.

The hilarious part about this question is I had five or more people I grew up with private message me and ask if WDC was based on a true story. Of course, I laughed and then I was like apparently you haven’t read it because if half of the things that happened in WDC had happened in our little town, everyone would have known about them. Everyone knew everyone else’s business. Everyone also thought they knew everyone’s else’s business if you know what I mean. The beauty of small towns, but also why I could never write a book based on actual events there, everyone would know who I was talking about even if I changed names. I would make a lot of enemies. lol

Is writing your second novel, Somewhere In Between, easier or harder than writing When Destinies Collide?

SR: A little of both. The hard part is I have a deadline, and I’ve had a lot going on over the last six months. I’m also the biggest procrastinator. 

Easier because my mindset is completely different. I love the idea of SIB, which isn’t to say that I don’t love WDC. The flow has come easier. It may be because there isn’t any tragedy. I’m a happy and upbeat person, so this one hasn’t taken quite the toll on me that WDC did. 

I’ve learned a lot since publishing WDC, too. I’ve learned to look at the journey of creating a story and characters through a new pair of glasses. I realize these stories are about me and not about the people who will read them. Saying this may sound unappreciative of me, but many authors I look up to have said it before, write for yourself and no one else. It will only make the story better for everyone else.

What do you do when/if you get writer’s block?

SR: I blame Sara Ney and stomp my feet, maybe throw myself to the ground. 

My more mature answer is I listen to music. I call the gals and discuss the story. 

I message my pal, Christine and beg her to finish the story for me. Opps, there I go again. I’m sorry, I can’t be serious for more than 60 seconds. haha.

Who is your favorite author?

SR: Are you trying to get me in trouble? 

Honestly, it’s hard for me to pick one because I’m incapable of making a decision. 

I’m not picking one, and you can’t make me! So there!

I love historical romance. I love Eloisa James. I was on this web/Skype thing with her once. Eloisa asked a question, and I gave her my answer. She immediately asked if I was a writer. I said no, but I dream of being one. She said dreams can only come true if you live them. I’ll never forget that day. 

My favorite non-historical is Colleen Hoover. She just speaks to me. She’s kind and inspiring. She’s honest and real. I love that about her. I’ll always be thankful to her. I’ll read anything she writes.

Oh! I almost forgot, Jessica Sorensen! She is a freaking cliffhanger queen! I hate cliffhangers. I told her that last year when we were at a signing together. I also may have told her she was lucky she wrote the follow ups so quickly and had happy endings, or I’d hate her. lol

If you could write a book with ANY other author, who would it be?

SR: Tina Reber. I think she’s a bada$$ and so funny, I don’t know her, but I want to know her. Maybe one day. I love her books and writing style, but I just really like how she represents herself as a person and as a writer.

When you’re not writing, what do you do for fun?

SR: I love to read or watch movies with my daughter. Spend time with my family or friends. I want to do things that make me feel good, happy, and inspired.

Current Favorite book boyfriend?

SR: Will Cooper FOREVER! I’m constantly in a battle for his affections with several worthy opponents, but I always win in my mind.  (Benton, from November 9 is the first in years almost to knock Will off his pedestal.)

Favorite ice cream?

SR: Great, now I want ice cream. My all time favorite is Amy’s Ice Cream, sweet cream with fresh strawberries. Amy’s is an Austin, Texas icon. It’s soooooo good. Now I want Amy’s! I know a group of gals I’ll be dragging to Amy’s during ABF.


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Author Spotlight- Sara Ney



Sara Ney is one of those authors that always delivers each and every time she writes a book. No other author has me laughing through out the book quite like Sara does, thanks to her witty humor and fabulous one liners. Her female characters are always strong, and I love that I can find myself in everyone of them. Her books are always lighthearted, filled with little romantic moments, and have the right amount of drama in them. I love her writing style, and the way she brings the main characters and all their friends to life. If you have never read one of her books it’s time to start. I have been a fan for a while now, and I can honestly say her books keep getting better and better!


The Kiss and Make Up Series:


#ThreeLittleLies Novella Series:



Sara was gracious and let me do a Q&A with her! 🙂 Enjoy!


Which of the female characters is the most like yourself?

SN: Jenna, the obnoxious friend who appears in my first three books. Or so I’ve been told by those who know me, LOL. I’m very outgoing, but not as inappropriate. I like writing her because she says exactly what I’m thinking.

Have you ever made a character do/say something that you regret looking back at it now? Or maybe something you wish a character would’ve done/said?

SN: I think I probably wouldn’t have waited so long for Cecelia and Matthew (He Kissed Me First) to kiss because WHY DID THEY WAIT SO DAMN LONG? Ugh, I never would have done that. I would have let the bastard kiss me. Why wait?

As much as I love the relationships between your characters, I also adore the friendships shown, especially between the females. Are their close bonds something you made sure to portray?

SN: Side characters are my favorite; they make a Main character complete. I’d like to think we all have a wacky group of misfit friends who complete us too. “The Loud One,” “The One Who Likes To Hug,” or “The Friend Who’s ALWAYS LATE.” I adore awkward people, and am very forgiving when they screw up [most of the time]. They make a story whole.

The Three Little Lies series is such an original concept- how did you come up with it?

SN: I am in love with the idea of romantic clichés; brothers best friend… unrequited love…. childhood crush…. fake boyfriend…. The day I turned A Kiss Like This over to my formatter, I started pounding out Things Liars Say. I knew I wanted it to be a cliché–and immediately thought a mistaken identity could be romantic and flirty, but I also knew I didn’t want it to drag on and on. That’s why Things Liars Say is a novella and not full length. Things Liars Hide isn’t as cliché as the first, but Book 3 definitely is!

Your male characters are often charming assholes*, the perfect blend, making them feel very realistic. Are any of them based off anyone you’ve dated or known?

*I am using the term assholes loosely. They are sweet, romantic and loyal, but have their male moments, which makes them all the more realistic. This isn’t an insult!

SN: I spend a lot of time observing people, and I’ve mentioned in my bio that I’m an adviser for a university organization, which puts me in direct contact with the Cal’s, Matthew’s, Cubby’s and Weston’s of the world on a regular basis. This is why my females are so bold (for the most part). Young woman these days shouldn’t settle for some of the behaviors I see from collegiate men, and I think readers have noticed I’m very much into empowering females. So while they’re not based on any one specific person, they are my interpretation of how guys are. How they act and talk.

Can you give away anything on the Kiss and Make up book four?

SN: I definitely have a concept for it, and parts are it have already been written but when it will be published is a grey area. I’ve titled it ONE LAST KISS and it will be Jenna’s story… as well as an epilogue of sorts: you’ll find out what happens to everyone from the previous books. Happily the Ever Afters? We shall see….

You are on the last book for both the Three Little Lies and Kiss and Make up series, do you have any other series/books in mind for when they are finished?

SN: Believe it or not, I do have an outline for another book; a standalone (but let’s be honest, the first books in both my series were supposed to be standalone’s, so maybe I’m not the person to ask). All I know it that it will probably involve some ice cream, a sister, an alpha male, and some awkward staring from across a grocery store.

I know you are working with M.E Carter on Friend Trip, but if you could collaborate with any author, who would it be?

SN: I don’t have a clue how to answer this question without rattling off a long list *stares off in the direction of my bookshelf* Elle Kennedy. I’ve also long admired Jane Green. I love Cindy Miles. S Walden is flawless, I think she could make me a better writer. This question is the worst–I want to list everyone I admire. Colleen Hoover. Jen Frederick. DAMMIT. Everyone.

Thanks again Sara for your time!


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